The future

31 Days of Love Challenge

 

As you may have noticed I did not blog yesterday due to the lack of content I would be providing...so today we are doing both days challenges! I can't believe this month is over...it just flew away! I want to thank all of you ladies for doing this with me and for the positive feedback I have gotten thus far. From now on I will be probably blogging every other day or so about different things pertaining to us women so be on the lookout for that (:

Day Thirty/Thirty One

 

30. Reread wedding vows/Make promise. Maybe before bed? Or during an argument you want to end...or some other down time, read your vows to your man and NEVER forget the things that brought you together. If you want to use this during an argument, just use the most significant line from it and remind your love why you two are together...now forever (:   If you are not married yet, sit down and make a promise to your man. A promise about your relationship to demonstrate how serious it is. There is nothing sweeter than meant words.

 

 

31. Plan a future trip together...just imagining it will relax you. To end this interesting month, take time to ask your man where he would like to go with you in the future. Think together of a place and plan a trip! It doesn't have to be next month...or even this year...you can start planning it by figuring out where, how much it'd be, and saving up for it. Working together on a rewarding goal will bring you two closer...especially after you complete it and are sipping on drinks on the beach. Or maybe backpacking across Europe...or exploring unknown cities to you in Asia. Whatever you guys are into do it now because time is precious and we are young now! 

This does not have to be anything extravagant, you can just go on a weekend trip to the beach or a mini vacation at a bed and breakfast at a random town in your state that you haven't been to! I plan on doing that last one once we get back to Texas! These small trips are perfect for couple's with kids (or dogs lol) so to quote Nike, just do it! The purpose of this is to unwind a little from everyday stress and strengthen your bond by creating new memories together (:

 

Once again, thank you to my lovely ladies for taking on this challenge with me! I love you all and hope I helped your relationship even just a little bit, even just ONE day! Yall know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3

Our first time...

31 Days of Love Challenge

 

How was everyone's weekend? Mine was great especially since I spent it with  my husband...I love that he has weekends off (:    So did you end up going out yesterday? What did your man think?! Was he surprised? lol J doesn't get that surprised cause I occasionally offer but he always asks me if I have enough in my account lol duh, if I didn't would I offer to treat? ;) ahahahha. Today's challenge seems like it'll be fun to me...and bonding which is a plus!

Day Twenty Nine

 

Reminisce on your firsts together. Your first date, first kiss, first night together, first pet, first apt, first vacation. Your proposal, your wedding...your marriage/relationship so far...etc. 

 

 

 Taking time to remember important parts of your relationship is a great way to recall why you fell in love with each other. It's also great because in a way, you relive those moments. You can tell each other what you first thought about each other when you met...talk about when you just knew you couldn't live without him...make it fun by maybe writing about it or just sitting and snacking while reviving those early days of your relationship...or even cute like this picture while looking at the stars <3 

 

 

 Well this should be a fairly simple challenge. As we are coming to a close in this monthly challenge we will take quite some time to reminisce (: Yall know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3

My treat

31 Days of Love Challenge

 

So yesterday when I posted the blog I felt like something wasn't right but I didn't check since I was in a rush...and guess what? There was something wrong! So yesterday's post was supposed to have been for today and I skipped yesterdays! I have the 31 days on a document I made before the month started and tried to do them according to day of the week and such. Anyway it's no big deal though...on to today...

Day Twenty Eight

 

Go out for dinner but you pay for the meal. What better way to convince your beau to take you out on the town than you offering free dinner for him? ;) 

 

 

Oh and it doesn't have to be an expensive place either...it can be a dessert/coffee date...or an ice cream date! Talk about adorable! Anyway,  I suppose your man pays for dinner when you both go out but sometimes a girl doesn't feel like cooking or you just want to go out before the dreaded week starts again and so this is a great way to convince your guy...especially if he loves his "lazy Sunday" like my husband does lol. Another reason to recommend this challenge is simply because your partner will feel appreciated and will be impressed that you offer to treat once in a while! Yes gentlemen "should" always pay on dates, but nice considerate women don't mind paying once in a blue moon. I swear to you, he will love that you thought about how he always pays and he will love even more the fact that you decided to do this...at least he should ahahaha...

 Well I hope my lovely ladies had a great weekend and make it a Sunday funday! Yall know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3

The birds and the bees...

31 Days of Love Challenge

 

I hope everyone had a sexy Friday night lol we did and today has been cloudy and rainy over here so it's a lazy Saturday it seems. Today we shall continue on the same topic.

Day Twenty Seven

 

Talk about your sex life. Are you both getting fulfilled sexually? What else do you guys want to try under the sheets? Role playing? More passion? A new sex move? Share your deepest desires!

 

 

This may sound and seem like an embarrassing subject to talk about but in reality, if you're with the right person, in a serious relationship, it shouldn't be. A great marriage/relationship thrives with many things including a healthy sex life and if you don't talk about it, how can it get better and continue to bind you together to your partner? There's a reason why it's called intimacy. Don't be afraid of your man's reaction, who knows...he might even like that you are actually talking about how to make it more fun and pleasurable ;)

 

 

 Well I kept it short and to the point today...you lovely ladies know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3

oh loverboy

31 Days of Love Challenge

 

Yesterday's challenge is a difficult one to get started on because sometimes we may act a certain way in the heat of the moment and it's hard to recognize when it's not good for our relationship. I do hope I gave you a bit more awareness on that subject though!

Day Twenty Six

 

Dress up in something he finds irresistible; send him a picture while he's away. Today is Fri and no better night to get it on...if you know what I mean ;) This is a pretty straightforward challenge day (:

 

 

When your man is gone, preferably at work, put on whatever he finds seductive...be it a certain lingerie, stockings, high heels, his tshirt w.nothing else on? Whatever drives him crazy, you should know ;) Then take a picture on your phone and send it to him...you can do it without showing your face but I think you could trust your man with a sexy picture...you could delete it when he arrives home anyway, if you're worried about it getting in the wrong hands. Sending your loverboy a hot picture especially when he's not around will have him wanting you even more since he can't literally have you right away and it will build anticipation...this is great if let's be honest...you've been craving some intimate time lol

 

Yes I am aware that our self taken pic will NOT look this awesome lol but we can all dream =P

 

Well I hope you all get "lucky" tonight and enjoy your Friday with your partner...you ladies know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3