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 31 Days of Love Challenge

 

Hello followers! I hope everyone had a great weekend. I apologize for no blog yesterday, considering that I was unable to post my blog at the desired time...then when I checked again, it was a little late and so I decided to post both days today. The first challenge is great for the relationship and the second one, although fairly easy, is very rewarding for your man (:

Day Fourteen/Fifteen

 

14: Schedule a day a week for him to go out with friends or enjoy a hobby. Let him enjoy his evening playing poker, pool, or golfing alone or with his crew. We all need time apart from our loved one, it's really good for relationships to enjoy things on our own or w.friends, and to be independent because then we have new stories and a different side of us to share later. Oh and we will also miss each other which will only increase our love and appreciation for our partner. Total bonus!

Take this day to do take pleasure in having some leisure "me" time. If you are a stay at home wife, do NOT use this time for more housework, this is as much his time for fun, as it is yours! Take this time to do things that entertain you. Have a girls night out or in. Go to a painting class. Have a play date w.your kids and your friend's kids. Then when you come back home, you can both talk about your different activities at the end of the day (:  Great bonding time!

 15: Write on his facebook wall/bathroom mirror how much he means to you and something he did lately that you appreciated. Lol ideally I was thinking on facebook wall, but if you or your love do not have a facebook, you can always do this at home by writing the same message on your bathroom mirror with white board markers! Don't worry, it comes right off w.paper!

We all love to hear good things about ourselves, as I have mentioned on past blog entries, so taking a whole day to write a deep well thought message once a week is the least we can do for our companion. I can guarantee you that he will have the biggest smile when he notices your message and will feel the reassurance of your love and that they are doing a great job at making you happy!

Well I hope you enjoy these two challenges and remember that this is not just about your partner, it's just as much about you, so enjoy your day too and don't feel guilty! With that said, yall know where to reach me, comment below, email me at wife.nextdoor@yahoo.com or tweet me!

xoxo,

                           wife-nextdoor <3