31 Days of Love Challenge
What are you guys cooking tonight? Yesterday I forgot to share how one time when I made J choose a recipe, I made it and it became his favorite meal! Now he wants it once a week =P If things don't work out that way, at least your man will see that you tried and you did it for him lol. J hasn't always completely loved everything I've cooked but it's okay because it's part of getting to know each other even more every day. Today's challenge...
Day Eighteen
Take interest in one of his hobbies that you don't really like. Your guy will be blown away by your change in attitude and will love that you are participating and interested too! He might even feel more attracted to you! No joke.
When I met J, his only hobbies were soccer and video games...you know, typical guy things. One night him and his roommates had a poker night and he sucked. My man is not used to not being good at competitive things, so he started playing for free online and even reading books about it lol. He also joined this free league in the city. After he became better and better, he seemed obsessed with it to the point where poker has annoyed me throughout the years. I realized if I changed my attitude about it, it would be better for both of us. When I actually showed interest and joined in, he loved it and it turned out to be something else we could do together. We started playing in that league together and hosting poker nights at home (which was great for socializing with friends), we went to casinos together, I've watched him play and I cheer for him. So on. I like it to a point but I'm not all into it like him lol, but I'm still there for him.
this was me before J taught me lol
The point of my story is that sometimes we might get annoyed when our men take their hobbies to another level because they spend so much time with it. If you complain that he doesn't spend much time with you, then just change your attitude and YOU join him...you never know, you might actually like it haha. If you try his hobby and still don't like it, he'll notice that you put in effort and be grateful for that. You can still show him you care by continuing to support him in it and listening to his stories about it. The point is just for him to see that you care about that part of his life that seems to be important to him.
Look how cute a golf date can be...him teaching you! Awww
Well with my point made...I wish you guys a nice adventure with this challenge hehe. You know where to
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xoxo,
wife-nextdoor <3
My husband doesn't really have hobbies. He comes home from work around 7 or 8 at night (IF he's not hanging out with his buddies). And when he's home there is so much to do around the house.. like the never-ending battle with the broken lawnmowers (yes, plural.. they're ALL broken!) On a rare occasion, he might play his video games. I love watching him.. but when I join in he just gets pissed off at me, cuz I suck so bad.. lol. But we did play Super Mario Bros. together once or twice. That was fun!
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