31 Days of Love Challenge
I hope everyone had a fantastic family Sunday, unfortunately we don't live in the same state as family so we just had our own little family day. The weekend just went by a little too fast considering it was 3 day for us ;)
Day Twenty One
Ask your man what is the one thing he likes least about you or the way you act so you can work on it. Maybe do it while drinking coffee or during some down time. Beware only to do today's challenge if you are willing to listen to what he has to say and not get offended. This is not to get mad at your guy, this is to better your relationship by working on something that displeases your love.
Maybe it's the fact that you don't talk to him when you get angry? Maybe it's when you say whatever when you are in the middle of an argument. Or maybe it's something silly like the fact that you always change the tv to TLC not even realizing that he is watching the tv lol. Or he really hates those faux leather pants you wear ahahah. Whatever his biggest dislike may be, your goal is to tell him why you do it/like it and then listen to his reasoning on why he does not. You guys will see each other's perspectives and then decide accordingly. In the case of your attitude on arguments, I know you can change to be more positive next time...and in the case of him disliking your pants lol...he can get over it o you might wear it less often? Personally I know J doesn't like heels with straps and I have a few pairs. He's never told me NOT to wear them, but either way I try to only wear them when I'm going out with mom or friends and aren't w.J all day. It's my choice...I still rock them and aren't deprived and he doesn't even notice! (: Well maybe and hopefully after you ask him today's question, your beau may even ask you what you dislike about him...but if he does, tell him not to get offended just as you didn't.
I wish you all good luck and strength in today's endeavor. It could go from fun and frivolous to serious and becoming a heart to heart. Either way, it should make your relationship better if you take things positively, keep an open mind, and not get offended. Well, ya know where to
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xoxo,
wife-nextdoor <3
So, I asked him last night "What's something you don't like about me.. something I can work on?" And he joked "You mean I can only pick one?" Lol. Then he thought about it and said "Idk" and then, "I don't like when you ask stupid questions like this. How's that?" So... it didn't lead to any deep discussions or a heart-to-heart.
ReplyDeleteBut then this morning he griped at me for not putting the kitchen sponge up the right way. I accidentally left it in the sink instead of propped up at an angle on top of the sink so it could dry. And he gets on to me about other stuff too.. like when I forget to turn off the outside light as soon as I wake up.
So I guess what I really need to work on is not forgetting to do things the way he asks me to.